The Michael Jackson Song That Left Him in Tears Every Time He Sang It

Michael Jackson was known for extraordinary control in the recording studio, but one song on Off the Wall affected him so deeply that control seemed to disappear. While recording “She’s Out of My Life,” Michael repeatedly reached the final moments of the ballad and broke down in tears. Producer Quincy Jones kept trying, but the same thing kept happening.

Jones later recalled recording roughly eight to eleven takes and watching Michael cry at the end of every one. Rather than treating the tears as a mistake that needed to be removed, Jones eventually realized the emotion belonged there. The crying heard near the end of the finished recording was real.

Michael Jackson – She’s Out of My Life Official Video

Michael later explained that the song’s words suddenly affected him because he had been holding so much emotion inside. The ballad was written by Tom Bahler and produced by Quincy Jones, who wanted Michael to explore a more mature emotional side of his voice while making Off the Wall.

That vulnerability helped make the recording stand apart from the album’s dance-heavy hits. “She’s Out of My Life” became part of an extraordinary run for Off the Wall, which made Michael the first solo artist to place four singles from one album inside the Billboard Hot 100 Top 10.

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A newer 2026 interview with guitarist Larry Carlton adds another layer to the session. Carlton explains how Tom Bahler and Quincy Jones brought him in specifically for the song and how he developed the delicate guitar parts heard around Michael’s vocal. Michael’s voice had already been recorded when Carlton entered the studio.

Michael Jackson would later become even bigger with Thriller, “Billie Jean” and “Beat It,” but this quiet Off the Wall recording captured something different. There were no spectacular dance moves or elaborate effects to hide behind. Just Michael, a heartbreaking song and an emotion he could not seem to stop. Listen closely to the ending and hear the moment Quincy Jones decided was too real to erase.